I could have written the same post a few years ago. Wife , out of nowhere , with no explanation, decided after 30 yrs. it was time to move on. They come up with all these bullsh*t lines like “ I’m not IN love with you anymore “ . “ I fell out of love “ etc………..
Won’t say anything that might be used against them in court.
If you look back carefully over the years you’ll probably see all the signs you may have missed. I also had the same problems , no affection , doesn’t open up truthfully. Don’t trust her anymore, etc , etc……..
The short reply is this. Don’t let her take total control of the situation.
Get a lawyer. Don’t leave the house. I know it’ll be hard but only talk to her if totally necessary. Start planning YOUR future. Think about YOURSELF. Be selfish.
Go get what you need. Realize that people change. YOU have to change.
Don’t sit around reminiscing or feeling sorry for yourself. Move on. Practice mindfulness and just live in the moment. Not yesterday , or tomorrow.
Just make sure that your going to make it on your own.
Wishing you the best……..