Hi. My husband emotionally cheated on me. We separated for six months then got together because he promised he would attend couples and individual counseling. He also had been verbally and emotionally abusive towards me. Since being back together and since attending to therapy, his words and actions now match. Before they did not. My best advice to you is to change the unwanted behaviors. Match your actions to your words AT ALL TIMES. Her trust in you CAN return IF you do this. She may be gone at this point, but that’s what you need to do in my humble opinion.