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Originally Posted by Alaska101
Update as of today (7/29/22): She reached out after 5 days of pretty much no communication at all. She feels Shut off from our connection. Says she doesn't feel a lot about us and how she doesn't feel close to me emotionally. She says she is waiting to see if her feelings change, but that she feels disconnected from that love she feels for me. It took her 5 days to give me a reply with all that included. I haven't replied to her all day. Do I play this game along with her and not reply? Do I come to the awareness, as much as it hurts to come to terms with it, that we end the relationship? I don't want to lose her and I want to reconcile with her but she is telling me that the love she feels for me is pretty much gone. I don't want to wait in this state of anxiety much more. This limbo is pushing me further and further away from her and I really don't know what to do right now.
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It does sound like it's over, I am very sorry to say. She could have a change of heart, but honestly, do you blame her for how she feels at this stage?
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Originally Posted by Alaska101
Have hope, thank you for the kind words. We’ve been back together for four months and about 5 times since being back together my words have not matched my actions. Every time I’ve slipped up, I promise her change. She’s not feeling love for me anymore and can’t trust me. I think this was the last straw for her. Even though I truly deeply mean it this time. That my actions will match my words. It’s been 6 days with little to no communication from her. I believe she is checking out and moving on💔
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I hope you can learn a valuable lesson from this painful experience. 1) Don't ever cheat. 2) back up your words with your actions at all times. These are two very important lessons to carry forward with you, as painful as it may be to recognize and accept the relationship ending. Silver lining: you can do better next time.