I think others might find this useful and helpful as well

I was thinking earlier and i realised that the reason I adopted Willow is cause she did something Ebony used to do, when Willow first met me, she came over to smell me then the Ebony-thing she did was wrap her tail round my leg, which is something Ebony did

Its something i only knew Ebony and Willow to do, the way she did it

I think in a way i was trying to "find" Ebony again, although i know i will never see her again, unless the rainbow bridge poem is right

The lesson for others: Nobody and no pet is the same as another person or pet, if you look for someone or some pet exactly the same as the person or pet you lost, you won't find what you are looking for and it will just hurt everyone all over again, cause you'll be constantly comparing the lost person or pet, with the current person or pet.