Thank you open eyes and divine. I need to see a lawyer. I just spent 320 on emergency vet bill, so now I’m a bit anxious to pay for a consult until next paycheck, or until he contributes. I could borrow money from a friend if need be but am trying to avoid that. I know I don’t have to do sell the house right away and I am resisting his pressure. it feels more stressful suddenly. He said he is “practical” and not to “bad guy” him when I said I will do what’s best for our child, first. He is very manipulative. He is the farthest from practical. I didn’t sleep well last night, so it is not good for me to talk to him about this stuff.
I don’t want to move for minimum 6 months. I’ve seen divorces take years to resolve, or three months. I doubt the court would or could force me to sell sooner than six months.