The short version is that this guy needs to get his act together. He obviously has
many anger issues that need to be worked on before he can even consider a marriage.
Meanwhile , you need to work on your own issues. Maybe somewhere down the road
this marriage can be revived. But I see a lot of work that need’s to be done. In the meantime
it’s probably best and safer for you to be as far away from this guy as possible. Work on
your own issues so that maybe at some point you’ll get your OWN life together and find
some level of peace.