Thank you so much for replying. Yes, that's true. His inability to regulate his emotions and have an open discussion about his mental condition/ insecurities drove a wedge between us and led to serious trust issues. For the past 2 months, we are completely out of touch so I am convinced that this marriage is over while we wait for our divorce decree. I am not saying that everything was entirely his fault but I did walk into this marriage unaware of his ADHD and trouble with past partners which made it extremely difficult for me to understand him and sustain a loving bond.