I came home to the USA to check on my mother and returned without their knowledge. My mother has lost about 30 pounds and had not been to a doctor for almost two years. So, I called 911 and the paramedics took her to the hospital. She is demented unfortunately now. She puts money in the trash and cannot remember where she put things. I am here at home but she keeps saying I'm sick, not her. The situation is tragic but my father and brother ignored her medical care until I returned. I was furious for awhile but am now ok with her condition since my brother is now taking her to the doctor. If I had not returned, she would have died I believe. It is sad but I am happy I returned. Also, I thought something was odd that she would say one thing then another thing that opposed it. My father and brother are too busy with work. However, for them to ignore her care is too diabolical. So, I'm glad I returned.