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Default Aug 07, 2022 at 06:56 AM
 
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Originally Posted by eskielover View Post
Going to play devils advocate here.....she has the right to think the way she does about things going on in this world just as much as you do whether it is different from your thinking or not

Do you have PROOF that she is wrong or is it really your OPINION vs her OPINION on these things?

What ever happened to tolerance of differing opinions or beliefs? This applies to both sides, I am not just pointing at you. Respecting each others choices of how one believes is the only way marriages truly work because differences in the way we see things is NORMAL. Agreeing on everything isn't & putting her down for the way she thinks or her putting you down WILL end the marriage when it replaces tolerance
Any addiction and uncontrolled obsession is detrimental to the marriage: drinking, gambling, internet, work obsession, excessive working out AND obsession with conspiracy theories etc These things do destroy relationships. We can bring tolerance into the discussion by saying you should tolerate alcoholic drinking all day or husband working out 8 hours every single day instead of being with his family at least for some time. Let’s be tolerant.

Spending excessive amount of time on the internet and obsessing over conspiracy theories is detrimental to the marriage. That’s when people need to seek help.

Also conspiracy theories have nothing to do with proof. Many of them are not scientifically plausible and there’s evidence that it’s not what happened yet it wouldn’t stop a conspiracy theorist. Proving them wrong isn’t going to stop anything.

Again the issue isn’t that she has some opinions, but the amount of time and mental energy she devotes to conspiracy theories. It’s detrimental to their marriage.
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