Zen... I tried to PM you (having turned in to a sometimes lurker) but couldn't, so decided to post.

The same thing happened to me last week. Only it was an assessment, not with a regular t, so no hugs.

I just was so upset 'this can't be happening to me, I don't want this to be happening to me'.
But it is.
And there isn't anything I can do about it.
But deny it... There is always that...
I just wanted to let you know that I understand some of what you are going through with respect to this.
I don't want it to be true either.

I still check my PM's occasionally.
I could pass my email onto you if you would like.