I find this very difficult, but I want to address in therapy why I have such strong sexual desires, and how it's affecting my daily ordinary life, but I fear that if I tell my therapist, she won't look at me the same again. Maybe she wouldn't even hug me if I happen to need it, and I'm feeling pretty down these days. I fear this, partially, because I have discussed with her about some romantic transference that I had felt some time ago. It doesn't feel strong like before, but I still like her, and I thought that I would feel weird talking about sex with her.

Have you been in the same spot? How did you talk about it? If I talk about this with her, would she be more, like "on guard", as if I were crossing boundaries? I'm not too sure about that last one, though.