I don't know if affairs of the heart should be so intellectually based kim? I know I can wonder from time to time about "if, why,,and how" folks are interfacing with me but most times I am operating on my own fears when I consider this too much...

My greatest moments in any relationship are boundless...meaning I have no expectations,,,I allow a person to be who they are and basically take me or leave me...

Leaving me means that the time is not right for our attributes or needs to co exist with some harmony...

As I have gotton older I have learned a patience about things,,,that time needs time...and people too need those ticks of the clock to accept or not what I am...

IMHO.

Lenny