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Old Aug 11, 2022, 05:20 PM
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Originally Posted by AzulOscuro View Post
I have a question. Maybe because I’m shy but I never understood that idea about feeling some kind of relief from a problem only with the act of putting outside, on another person or people.
I only understand that you tell somebody about someone or putting it outside to get some kind of insight so you can take hands on the issue but the only idea to talk about your problems for others to read or listen to them. I don’t see any point on that.

Do you understand it? If you see any explanation to this, makes me know, please.
I have trusted friends I discuss some issues with but it is for discussion, not for relief. Coming up with a plan of attack or a solution gives relief but it is the plan or solution that provides the relief.

However if I accidently hurt someone's feelings, apologizing to them & knowing they understand can give relief so can stop ruminating of the fact I might have hurt them
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