I see.
I look for a different thing though.
Opinions and advice. Information.
I don’t feel any relief at all by someone giving me a hug.
I rather prefer a push if people consider that I’m wrong. Many times things may be seen better from an outside sight. Even if the person telling me “stop, this is not the way” is wrong. Of course, in the end, the final word and decision is up to oneself.

Here, there are people who knows more than me about many topics and I want to hear them.
One learns from own experiences in the most effective way but also about others’ experiences.
For example, a bulb switched on inside me through sort of a negative comment about another person.

But, well, I guess each person look for different things.
For me, real support is pretty far from what many people look for here.

You won’t ever see me beginning a thread by saying.
Please, be nice with your commentaries. This is already a red flag for me not to reply.

And this about some topics being sort of taboo. I don’t get it. To be honest. This takes a person to no where. Only being attached to their flags, their religions, their political shirts.
It seems as we are not able to evolve.