Thanks for all the replies. Sounds like a lot of people do share which is good. I do believe in open communication and honesty in my relationships and like some above think I'd much prefer someone to tell me something that was helpful/unhelpful in real life. The only thing that bugs me though is that a few times in therapy I have shared some stuff that was profoundly helpful and even somewhat healing but for it to fall on deaf ears and nothing like it never said again.