Dear T,
I think that was a good discussion today about both the handshakes and R. It helps to know that you just, in general, see handshakes differently, but that you also understand my perspective. I do think much of it might come down to a predictable ending, that's there no matter what we talk about. So maybe it would help if we could figure out some sort of ritual for that (once I can see you in person again!) that we both feel comfortable with. And then hopefully, at some point, resume handshakes.

I'm also glad that you seem to understand about R. I'm not sure why it didn't occur to me until I was talking to you today, but I do wonder if part of it is that she's female.

And thanks for the empathy about D.

Love,
LT