Hubby and I are heading to Prague later this week for business relating to the property I've mentioned. Since we'll get there early with time for lunch, I suggested we invite my husband's older nephew to join us, if he's not working. He lives in Prague and works only some days. Initially, Hubby rejected the idea stating that "He never accepts and always makes an excuse", but I still think we should make the offer. The thought still counts. This nephew, in my opinion, has always been neglected compared to his much favored younger brother. I don't like such favoritism in a family! I also feel for this older nephew as he has BPD. As a major feature of BPD is fear of abandonment, his being sort of abandoned as a young teen didn't help. Hubby doesn't look at what I'm referring to as "abandonment", but I do.