My family and I have a name for L: Mary Poppins because she is practically perfect in every way...lol. Of course L is not perfect. Because she is open and honest with me, I see her limits and weaknesses, as well as her strengths and quirks. I think the parts of her that aren't perfect or ideal just make her human, which in itself is ideal. So instead of trying to fit L into a mold, I fit the mold around her, if that makes sense? She's my ideal therapist.