wow...thats so cool you can have that kind of relationship with your therapist......mines female, so I have to watch my p's and q's because she knows ive got the "hots" for her...

My first 3 or 4 months in therapy , I had no clue what direction I was going.....then gradually it fell into place

dont feel bad if you feel like your avoiding or playing......hell your the client and its your dollar so to speak.....if you wanna play UNO and it has some therapeutic value...then do it.......the trauma stuff will eventually fall into place (it did for me)