Willowtigger, the ignore list is a self-help tool we provide for each member's own personal care here. It is not something you can demand to be taken off of.

The tools we provide members are to help our members have a more enjoyable and rewarding community experience. It's something we've been doing for over 20 years here. I'm sorry you feel triggered by this tool that helps our members feel safe, but there's nothing we can do about it.