Just to be clear, just because I said I decided to back off doesn't mean I'm ok or accepting of everything.

As I said, why bother talking about it anymore with him when I already know it will just turn into another argument and nothing is going to change.

I didn't say I was backing down, nor did I say I will be staying with him. I merely said I'm not quite sure what I'm going to do yet. There's so many other choices and options I have and I need to decide which route to take. Those aren't things I planned on discussing here.

Thank you all for your time and your replies. I appreciate it.