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Originally Posted by Aviza
I've been married 3x but only one said he loved me but even he was ready to divorce. Never fought for the marriage like the other two. I'm sick of dating. I want to find my soulmate lasting love. I've been single more than married all my 30s I was single over half my 40s. I'm doing well but I want someone.
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Since you didn't mention 50's as a past decade, I am assuming that you are maybe in your 50's?
I didn't find my husband until I was 47 and got married at 48. My mom kept telling me for years that she knows of older women who have met someone their age and are getting married - in their 60's and 70's. She even told me of someone who is in his seventies getting his doctorate.
I personally believe that if you really want to find someone to love long term, that you can and it's out there. You just have to put yourself in the right kinds of places for that to happen. Meetups, social groups, church, community events, through friends or family or on dating sites that are age appropriate.
I had always thought that if my husband and I were to divorce, that I would go on the over 50 dating sites. Those sites will attract the men who want someone their own age and not someone younger. So, there are those options too.
But, while you are single, I think it's important to focus on being happy as a single person. Happy people generally attract healthier partners.