willowtigger, I don't know what site you were on, but that sort of thing wouldn't happen here. When you're put on ignore, it just means that someone can't deal with something you've posted and needs to take a break from such things. I noticed with surprise that I had been put on ignore by someone I don't even know.

I've never put anyone on ignore, but maybe I'm a bit more thick skinned. And I've never been harassed. If someone posts something that upsets us, we can also contact a moderator to see if it's just our issue or totally inappropriate in anyone's thinking.
There's no way that I can see to ask that person why I was ignored--and I just have to believe that they have their own issues. I've not seen anything you've posted that's made me even consider "ignoring" you. You're a valued member here, whether you've giving help or seeking help.

Love, Trav