I recently met a lady I kind of cluck wirh a few months ago. Her uncle was told by his Dr. that he only has another month to live. She’s his only family aside from her mom. He has one friend who looked after him, but she is gettung tired of that.

My friend had to take care of him despite having her iwn health issues . She is going through a lot now & has lost her job on top of that.

And she keeps on having issues with her flaky b.f too. I tried to support her & I’m always asking her how her uncle is doing.

I haven’t seen her in awhile until last week when I took her out to a show as an early birthday present. She’s ignored my Instagram messages for the last few days & my text.

She’s always online posting comments & videos, so it hurts to be ignored.

Should I say anything to her or not? Do I give her space? Am I being an unintentional pest by trying to contact her to see what’s going on?

Also, she kept texting me late at night weeks ago to talk & I said that my husband is trying to sleep. I did this a few times then she stopped texting me. She’d say goodnight with an exclamation point.

Could she be mad that I wasn’t able to support her whenever she needed me?

I’m also going through this with teo other women I recently met. One of them. told me that she was asking her friends for space.

I feel like I’m being a pest just for trying to care or unsupportive for having boundaries.

What should I do? Why woukd my friend ignore me sll of a sudden?