She will not do therapy. We have tried in the past and that's what this is..a manic phase but she does not feel like anything is wrong and that what's she's doing to me emotionally and mentally is me just being a baby.i am very emotional person where as she keeps things tight to her chest...she realizes at least that her medication needs adjusting but won't get it done. I don't understand..one phone call to her Dr and it can be changed. This has happened before and we got through it. But this time it's much worse and I fear that I can't hold on much longer..yesterday was our 7 year anniversary and I saw her for 30 seconds all day..my heart is literally being crushed and it doesn't seem to be effecting her at all