@Grice3689

I agree with CANDC in that she needs treatment asap.

Does she have a psychiatrist? Is the psychiatrist aware of what is going on now?

As for you, you must really be hurting. What can you do for you? do you have access to a therapist/psychologist?

If you call 211 in most provinces, you can get directed to resources such as a helpline to talk to someone, as well as other social supports that are out there, they could tell you what's available.