If the T has the qualities to form a good relationship with you that Imo is what’s essential. With those qualities we could work together despite and perhaps because of any differences like gendar, race, or personal decisions to have children or not.

However, if it matters to you then it’s important and you may want to consider a T who is a parent. Of course they could have a very different parenting style that may impact their relationship with you. With a good T all that doesn’t matter so much imo