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Originally Posted by Discombobulated
If you don’t hear from her then she really isn’t much of a friend.
I know it’s difficult when you have social phobia to meet new people and make friendships but there is a forum here for social anxiety where people support each other.
I think you deserve better quality friendships than the one you describe here.
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Thank you I really appreciate your kind words and advice it's been helpful.
I didn't know there was a form of social anxiety here I will check it out.
I told my therapist this about this friend and they told me that there is different types of friendships like it's not always 50/50. Like you can get friends from 80/30 like one friend supports the other friend more than other does and how it goes back and forth.
She told me it's not black and white.
Though... to be honsent I do have my doubts with what my therapist said. Since I don't hear from my friend at all so far this week.
And the rhythm of how we message each other has slow down dramatically, especailly when we did the LIVE art class.
So...I'm abit meh... to my therapist. Not sure.