This is am issue I have run into with my therapist while she does have a child he is 7. I have 3 with the youngest being 21. There have been multiple times that her comments have not sit well with me. Mostly surrounding kids moving out, me worrying about them, etc. For a while it seemed like she felt once kids are adults we should stop worring about them. We have disagreements however she wad willing to learn and listen. Once she told me a discussion we had made her finally understand the worry she caused her mom as a young adult.