I am glad you're seeing a counselor for your anger issues, but I will tell you that I almost divorced my husband for yelling at me frequently. He would have rageful outbursts, and it pushed me away to the point of a near divorce. Your wife also needs help, like everyone here is saying, but she doesn't see that there is a problem. She's got to get her meds adjusted and her meds and condition should really be managed by a psychiatrist, not a family doctor. Somehow, you've got to be able to get through to her and talk some sense into her. You also need to get a handle on your anger. I also would have walked out the door if my husband told me that he didn't love me anymore. That probably would have been the end of our relationship.