I'm sorry you are going through this.

What this woman is saying is not ok. I tend to disagree with the comment that she may not know what she is doing...

Do you really like the job and everything else? Do you have a work friend? Can you avoid her?

It's been my experience that people like that don't change - they get worse.

Any techniques or assistance in getting away from her? That would be my advice. I don't think confronting such people makes the situation any better - but that has been my personal experiences in life. Others, perhaps, may have other tips. I feel for you!