Maybe I should clarify something. I didn’t mean to sound insensitive to the feelings and emotions we experience after the death of a loved one. I tend to look at life from a universal standpoint. Just really trying to make sense of it all. I think there’s a reason different cultures grieve in different ways. Speaking for myself I still grieve the loss of my mom 50 years later. In a way , I’ve never been able to move forward.
By not getting past it I deprived myself of a happier more productive life. I was miserable to others. I think I should just leave it there for now. It gets too complicated because we’re dealing with something in the psychological realm.
I wish all , peace of mind , & the calming of the storm within.