Do you realize how much of life is a result of circumstances?!! Some people call it luck. I mean , some things are obvious. So , we think that we know or don’t know what we’re doing but meanwhile………………Life is orchestrated chaos. Controlled mostly by things we have no control over.
It’s amazing. There was a time when love had nothing to do with marriage. People
were “assigned “ a mate based on the needs of the tribe. Then individualism snuck in and “ love” was created. It depends on the time , place , culture , etc , etc…………..
I’m sorry for going into my philosophical mode again but I truly believe in it.
Most people are too busy trying to survive to think of a macro view of life.