My husband and I have been together 11 years. About 18 months ago he was diagnosed with Stage IV colon cancer that had metastacized to the liver and lungs. He had chemo, a colostomy bag, etc, and has since returned to work.

We haven't had ___ in 8 months. He says its because the scar hurts, his rectum hurts, everything hurts.

All I know is I hurt!!!