He sounds rather inconsiderate of your time and effort. Unfortunatly there are way to many woman who for whatever reasons desire to actually be treated like dirt. This conditions men into believing that being disrespectful is somehow a way to win the heart of every woman, sad but true...

I know this from my own experiances, I am the perpetual "nice guy" The one who takes his time planning dates that cater to the desires and interest of the other person. The one who brings a gift over for no reason but to bring joy to the one he dated, the one that opened the car door, the resturant door, and the door to his heart. The one who wrote poetry and sonnets for the one he wanted. The one who could not get a date to save his own life.

Unfortunatly in our post-gender feminist world women have been brainwashed to belive that all of the above is out-dated and patronizing, Damn shame really. I lucked up and met one of the few women still left on the planet who responds to kind and caring man. It sounds like you may be another.

My point is, DO NOT SETTLE. If any man treats you with anything less than consideration and respect for your time and you being there for him... DUMP HIS ***! Men who are inconsiderate jerks, DO NOT IMPROVE, DO NOT CHANGE, he will always treat you this way.

You deserve much better, and you should have much better. sorry for all the caps, but this issue evokes a lot of passion in me, I cry for those gentle souls so badly treated.

Best of luck to you... It sounds like you deserve true love, please do not give up yet.

(((Emmeline))))

TJ