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Originally Posted by AppleLime
Yeah I know it's a bit obsessive me checking days I between messages.
I do have traits of BPD so rejection is really hard for me.
I do go to a drawing class at the evenings every Monday but that's about it so far.
I get really anxious going alone in groups or how to randmonly go up to someone and say "hey"
I always think I need a reason to approach and talk to someone than just the sake of it.
Or who is approach and say hi while everyone is talking to other people.
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If you join meetup and go to the activity like eating lunch together you’d be forced to talk to someone sitting across or next to.
Or join book club. You’ll usually talk when your turn comes and groups are typically small.
Or go to meet where you don’t need to talk like watching movies but overtime you’d develop some courage.
I’d not be interested in meet ups where I have to debate who to approach. Go to one’s that are set up for your style of communication.
You can also volunteer somewhere or get a second job. Maybe just getting yourself busy with life you’d not be thinking about her as much.