Well, you already know he isn’t going to change and that he will expect to be able to get his needs met from anyone he spends time with.

Going forward your concern needs to be more about taking steps to make sure he doesn’t ruin your credit or borrow against your home.

I think you should look into getting your name off that credit card because if he fails to make payments your credit rating will end up suffering.

You really need to see a lawyer to find out what legal steps you can take to protect your credit and the equity in the home.