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Old Aug 31, 2022, 08:08 AM
Bill3 Bill3 is offline
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Suddenly my friend responded and said this
What did she say? I'm sorry, I couldn't find it in the post.

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What's going on?
Well:

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What she says and her actions doesn't match at all.
Actions speak louder than words.

Here's a good example:

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She said "oh yes, I was telling myself to reply back to you."
(But not actually replying.)

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I then asked "so if anything happened between us, you will tell me"? and she said "oh yes, you would know".
(So, to her, apparently, there is nothing wrong with the current situation.)

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Either way I keep ruminating about it and feel I'm going mad.
Time spent trying to analyze her and her behavior is not time well spent.

My suggestion is to think more about ways to avoid contact with her. The less contact you have with her, the less you observe her, the better the chance (over time) of freeing yourself.
Thanks for this!
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