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Originally Posted by Bill3
What did she say? I'm sorry, I couldn't find it in the post.
Well:
Actions speak louder than words.
Here's a good example:
(But not actually replying.)
(So, to her, apparently, there is nothing wrong with the current situation.)
Time spent trying to analyze her and her behavior is not time well spent.
My suggestion is to think more about ways to avoid contact with her. The less contact you have with her, the less you observe her, the better the chance (over time) of freeing yourself.
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Thank you for reading my message I really appreciate it. Understandable it was a loooonnnggg message so thanks.
Regards to your question what did she say.
I forgot to put it in..
She said this
"Aw Babe.
This reads like you spent ages thinking about how to explain your decision - you don't need to!
Of course we're friends beyond art class, you goose.
Yes, if this is what you want to do, then do it
I'll take over art class and see how long i want to keep it going, cos it's not a forever thing for me, either.
And flip yes we must meet up once a month for a gossip etc"
I will add I did check our art class Facebook page, and I notice she deleted the post where she says she would be doing art class on 24th of August.
And none thing has happened to the Facebook art class page since then.
I didn't believe her when she said "I'll take over art class" because I did pretty much heavy loading of it all. So I don't know what she is telling herself.
Either way like you pointed out. Says one thing but does oppostie.
I don't have a lot of friends.
So this friendship cut really deep.
Last time I had a friend well toxic friend but didn't realised it..Because I thought it was always my fault in every situation happened.
Was back in 2017 they stop talking to me cut off contact completely.
And it feels like I'm reliving this again, accept my toxic ex friend stop talking to me because we had this huge fight. Which I look back seriously was silly..I try to say sorry to that friend but they ignored me.
Where as for this situation there isn't any obvious signs I've offended them or upset them.
So I'm so confused.
I think is it me? because I do t have friends and always struggle with that.
Or is it because the friends I attract to myself?