Awww thanks @Buddha1too ; mum does do a lot for herself still and we have a yard man that does the outside work so that’s a huge help. She is in charge of her own meds thankfully cause mine are confusing enough. And though she does shower by herself she does let me know so I can keep an eye on her. I do do all the wound care. I do get breaks with my fitness classes and occasionally art classes. My sister helps out too as does my Nephew who does general repair. I do have more help than Sunflower gets from family. I’m blessed that way. It’s much harder when it’s acute care.