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Originally Posted by arich62
I’m in one and feel pretty alone tonight. Verbal abuse, control, (using one another) avoidance behavior, anger. And just needed to vent. I break inanimate objects to express my anger (this morning I sent a 150 lb wheelchair (with sandbags on it) down a steep 200 yard hilly road.
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Your not alone. The majority’s of marriages are unhappy. I would suggest you do whatever you have to do to get out of it , unless you think it can be repaired.
I would also suggest that you don’t send things rolling down hills or break inanimate objects as this can lead to unpleasant circumstances.
I really don’t believe that 2 people are meant to spend their whole lives with just the other person. Unfortunately the animal instincts in both men and women are still alive and kicking. It’s a difficulty thing to try and be “ civilized “. If it can work out , great. If not , then they should make it easier to get out of the contract.