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Tart Cherry Jam · 04:36 PM

I am a woman and I have never had a masturbation fantasy of being abused

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AND I have a history of "soft" (non-penetrative and ostensibly loving) adolescent sexual abuse by father. So here is a datapoint that goes the opposite way: was violated in reality, never fantasized about being violated, ever.

I do not think you can get a valid rational theory behind these fantasies. As stated above, they hurt nobody, so you do not need to feel bad about indulging in them.