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Sep 03, 2022 at 11:27 AM
Victim. Even lower. Something I've actively pulled against, so no surprise.
Podcast. Tend to withdrawing. Repressed rage. Constant fatigue. Overful awareness of emotions, uniqueness of self and others and perceptive of the workings of the mind.
Emotions over strong. Feelings of sorry for themselves, and struggle asking for help. Easier to complain than to ask.
VictimSide Lies: Playing the victim dramatically will evoke the love you deserve. Feeling sad ramps up the internal feelings and ruminations, paradoxically crowding out motives to reach out or dial it down.
Downside: Exhausting! Self-pity rather than self-love. Pushing people away via tests of whether they love you enough. Frustrates others because they want to help, you push them off, and they give up. More downsides: missing out. Non-invites to gatherings/meals/parties.
Learn the Positive Intelligence Reps (Called PQ Reps on the podcast). Watch for possibilities. Focus on the 20% positive thoughts. Yes, and. ###
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