Yes it makes sense...I was thinking about this earlier. I have no idea how to handle rupture type situations. I feel like when I have brought things up, it's always 'my fault' for reacting to something in a bad way. It feels like I'm a child screaming at an adult that I'm not happy, I need more/better etc, and the adult just telling me they know I feel hurt but also I'm wrong. I don't see the point in bringing up rupture things anymore, it doesn't change anything for the better.