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Looks like you made the right choice in leaving. The fact that many of his people hid this from you is a problem. It hurts to leave because you care even being a part of an abusive relationship, most of us know that here. The best thing to do is keep moving forward like you are now. Take in your thoughts you have about this situation and analyze them well and always reassure yourself that you're doing the right thing. I hope he finds the help he needs.