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Sep 04, 2022, 03:17 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
Posts: 15,701
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Originally Posted by GoGo2
Hi, I feel down, down, down! I did partake in a religious forum where I tried to help a person. The person was ungrateful and turned the whole thing around blaming me 
Now I am angry at myself for being so vulnarable.   
I need to protect myself better ...
A continued good day to everybody else!  |
I don't know, of course, what happened on the religious forum. But I have a thought. Perhaps you lecture people a bit too much? Advising people about matters they are already well aware of may cause people to feel put down and that their life experience is being negated. I know, in my own life, that I have to be careful to ask rather than tell. When we tell people how to behave, or tell people obvious things they are already aware of it feels condescending. Being condescended to is a terrible feeling.
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