Firstly, I agree with you. As the therapist, she owes it to her clients to consider the impact of her actions (or words) on them. She is not taking into consideration the impact on you.

I am wondering if she is experiencing any cognitive or memory 'deficits'. There seems to be *a lot* of forgetting on her part. Or maybe she is overwhelmed by whatever is happening in her life and/or age, and she is forgetful. That being said, she is clearly not hearing you but getting overly defensive.

I think you are doing everything 'right' - you are not blaming or accusing but expressing your feelings in a respectful manner. I would keep doing that.

Good luck for the 8th.