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Old Sep 05, 2022, 12:10 PM
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There’s nothing you can do but live your life. Him being in a bad mood doesn’t mean it needs to ruin your weekend.

Go see your mother or your sister or if they aren’t free go for a walk, go to a restaurant or coffee shop by yourself and read a book, go for a drive. If you aren’t up to leaving the house, do your own thing in the house.

Your life doesn’t need to depend on his moods. Being married doesn’t mean you must take on his moods or get your weekends ruined because he’s in a bad mood or be attached to his hip. Sure it’s nice to have time together on holidays but life won’t end if you do your own thing while he’s being grumpy. It’s not your job to fix his moods
Thanks for this!
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