Well, I was ready for him this morning! He started telling me how to talk to my husband of 30+ years! HE has only known him for the few months he's lived across the street... which can be counted on the fingers of one hand. I've known my husband for over 30 years! And HE'S telling me what I'm doing wrong? I'm telling my husband what to do, mostly out in the yard. That's what my husband has asked me to do! We used to argue about how and where to clip roses, where to clip when we're dead-heading, where I want the water to travel when I'm flooding the rose bed, etc. SHEEEEESH! And this guy thinks he knows better?? I already told him that I've known my husband for over 30 yrs and I should know better how to get things done that *I* want! He said he was leaving but that he'd come back and talk to me later. I asked him how he figured I'd be open to his suggestions about my marriage. If he does come back to insult me, etc., I'm ready for him! I'll simply tell him that my marriage and how both my husband and I handle it is NONE OF HIS BUSINESS!