Have fun with it, wear a miniskirt, show a little cleavage, watch movies where sex is depicted as healthy and red hot. Talk to your friends about their experiences, read stuff on this thread, flirt with guys who seem nice and have engaging personalities....read magazines, watch the movie Stealing Beauty that's a good one about one's first time with Liv Tyler she's great. Be aware of the trust factor, who to trust after how much time and for what reasons you tend to trust.....